Category Archives: lessons learned

Dealing With It

Whether you’re falling into crush after crush or getting yourself involved in a series of real relationships, there are going to be all sorts of things you’re going to have to deal with. While crushing, you have to deal with … Continue reading

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Choices and Consequences

One of the hazards of taking action is having to deal with the consequences. Of course, there are also consequences for not taking any action. That’s something many often forget–there’s no avoiding consequences. Things are going to go on in … Continue reading

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Thought to Action

As you can probably tell, I spend a lot of time thinking about things. (Here, it’s specifically relationship and personal internal working stuff, but I assure you there is much much more going on in my head.) Thought is important. … Continue reading

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Handle Your Baggage

Last time, I talked a bit about figuring out what you bring to the table in a relationship. That focused mostly on your particular self-image and how much you can give when you get involved with someone else. There’s another … Continue reading

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The Lisa Principle: Everything I Ever Wanted*

Most of the definitive 80s movies I saw, I didn’t see until they hit cable or video. So, I was always at least a year behind the curve. I do remember seeing the ads on TV for Weird Science, though, … Continue reading

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