Tweet In some of the things you’ll read here, I talk about balance and equality in relationships. Even if what the individuals involved are contributing different things to the relationship, those contributions should be equitable. If one is putting in a lot more than the other, that can throw off the balance of a relationship… Continue reading Bring It To The Table
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A Quick Video: Internal Crush Dialog
Tweet Here’s a quick little something from Reckless Tortuga that does a nice job of illustrating something we all do once in a while: let our imaginations totally run away with us. The best part, really, is the reality check right at the end. That’s the part we all have to remember to do on… Continue reading A Quick Video: Internal Crush Dialog
Hump Day Crush: My Long-Lasting Totally Hypothetical Crush
Tweet A long time ago, when I was just a wee lad, not even cognizant of what a crush was, the seeds of my longest lasting crush were planted. There were a few people I could always be found with back then. As seems to always be the case in my life, a couple of… Continue reading Hump Day Crush: My Long-Lasting Totally Hypothetical Crush
Hump Day Crush: 120 Minute Crush
Tweet Such a vision of loveliness on such a gray and dreary day. She got on the Metro with a small group of others at the GMU stop and sat near the door. From behind the plexiglass divider, across the clear expanse of carpet, I could see her clearly. She was just slightly shorter than… Continue reading Hump Day Crush: 120 Minute Crush
Hump Day Crush: Those Last Few Moments
Tweet You’ve survived the first few moments, where you were just head over heels for someone you didn’t know at all. You mustered the courage to introduce fantasy to reality and yourself to your crush. There’s only one more set of “moments” to go: the last few. Of course, crushes can go on for a… Continue reading Hump Day Crush: Those Last Few Moments
Hump Day Crush: Those First Moments
Tweet That first time she walks in through the door and catches your eye. Maybe you’ve seen her before, she seems familiar, doesn’t she? Or maybe not. It makes no difference. This is the first time you’ve seen her quite… like… that. Perfection. Or at least as close as humanly possible. At least as far… Continue reading Hump Day Crush: Those First Moments
Hump Day Crush: Floating, Like Vapor, On the Soft Summer Air
Tweet When you begin to talk about fantasy in the context of relationships, images of affectionate French maids, naughty librarians, buff pool boys and dashing bandits are immediately conjured. As far as most people seem to be concerned, fantasy is all about sex and eroticism. That’s the diet we’re fed by media going back generations.… Continue reading Hump Day Crush: Floating, Like Vapor, On the Soft Summer Air