The important question is “Why?”
Why are you interested in getting into a relationship?
Why are you in a relationship now?
Why do you stay in this relationship?
Is it for her?
Or him?
Or you?
Is it because “that’s just what people do?”
Why do you do what you’re doing?
If you can’t honestly answer that most basic question, you probably shouldn’t be in the relationship.
Successful relationships, like most of life, require willful action.
