One of the initial concepts I put forward when I started this blog was the idea of seven types of crushes. Since then, I’ve only really explored a few of them with their own posts. The list, as it stands now is: The Grown Up Crush The Puppy Love Crush The Hot Crush The Obsessive… Continue reading Sorting Into Bins
Wink-Wink, Nudge-Nudge, Grin
Flirting was one of those things that always mystified me. I was always too dense to notice when it was directed at me and too nervous to carry any out growing up. In college, I was just getting the hang of flirting when I ended up in back-to-back long-ish relationships. (Still too dense to notice… Continue reading Wink-Wink, Nudge-Nudge, Grin
Handle Your Baggage
Last time, I talked a bit about figuring out what you bring to the table in a relationship. That focused mostly on your particular self-image and how much you can give when you get involved with someone else. There’s another component that everyone always complains about in other people, but few take the time to… Continue reading Handle Your Baggage
Bring It To The Table
In some of the things you’ll read here, I talk about balance and equality in relationships. Even if what the individuals involved are contributing different things to the relationship, those contributions should be equitable. If one is putting in a lot more than the other, that can throw off the balance of a relationship and… Continue reading Bring It To The Table
New Month
Well, managed to make it through all of March without seriously missing any post days. The last couple have been a little on the late side, but they’re there and I’ve got some things mostly done for the future. The Month Gone By If you missed it, you may want to go back and check… Continue reading New Month
What Works, Varies
As the month rolls to a close, I think it’s a good time to re-iterate a few important things about what goes on here (and not just because I still haven’t put the polish on more in-depth content.) Semi-regularly, someone wanders through this site or hears me talking about the ideas I put forward on… Continue reading What Works, Varies
Where do you go?
When you have questions about love and relationships, where do you go for answers? Who do you trust for advice? What makes you listen to or disregard advice that’s offered? Are you someone who people come to for relationship advice? Why do you think that is or isn’t? I ask because I’m curious. (And because… Continue reading Where do you go?