The Art of Relationships, Real and Imagined
Not to get all new agey on you, but I’ve found that this really helps in a lot of situations. One of the core precepts of Buddhism is mindfulness. Mindfulness is tuning in and paying attention to who and where you are right now. It anchors you in the present moment. Now, it’s not always [...]
Over at FeelGooder.com, there’s an interesting article that came up about Emotional Affairs. You should go check that out. I think it touches on one of the key issues that I’ve seen destroy a lot of relationships. The lack of connection that makes the heart begin to wander always leads to a breakdown in communication. [...]
I came across this little animated short the other day and found it kind of cute and sweet. At least at first. Now I’m not so sure. I think it’s prompted some deep musings. But before I share mine, I want to hear yours. From a relationship perspective, what do you think of this little [...]
For those of us who’d rather crush on people than date them, social life can be a little difficult at times. Not because of how we feel about our choice or situation, but because of how others do. Far too often anyone who’s single for more than a couple of months gets “that look” from [...]
One of the points I mentioned in my last post, about how to make it through tough times, was to tell your story. This is, by far, the thing I’ve found works best for me and many people I know. There are a couple more in-depth “tricks”–things that make the difference between just whining about [...]
No matter how you put yourself out there, be it in a relationship, by crushing on people, or just as a friend, sometimes you’re going to have bad days. Bad days when you’re heartbroken. Bad days when you’re depressed. When you’re feeling worthless and unmotivated. Days you’re just not even close to being at your [...]