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Rules of Engagement: 5 Checks and Balances

If there’s one thing I’ve learned over the years, it’s how easily I can fall back into old patterns. And my old patterns when it comes to romantic feelings are far from beneficial to me or anyone else who may … Continue reading

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Hump Day Crush: Personal Limits

When exploring, there are two main things you need: a starting point and a rough idea of what you’re looking to do. The starting point gives you somewhere to gauge how far you’ve gone. It gives you an anchor point … Continue reading

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Hump Day Crush: By the Rules

Above all else, self control is the key to making a Grown Up Crush happen. Without self control, without the ability to follow the rules, there is little to be gained from a crush that can’t be gained just as … Continue reading

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6 + 6 Rules for Crushes

Every thing has some sort of rules to play by. The problem is, none of us are handed a rule book when we’re born; let alone when we really need it–like when we’re teenagers. The only way to figure out … Continue reading

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The Seven Types of Crushes

You’ve all heard me mention the book I’m working on. If we hang out, you’ve heard me pitch it more than a few times. Well, I’ve actually been doing work on it (not just talking about it) in an effort … Continue reading

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